You want better sleep, but cry-it-out feels wrong for your family
You're exhausted and things need to change. But you know that leaving your child to cry alone isn't the right way for you or them. You want an approach that feels aligned with the way you respond and parent naturally.
You're dealing with more than one sleep issue
It might not just be the night wakes. You might also need to transition from co-sleeping, or making naps easier. You need a plan that tackles all of it, not just one thing.
The thought of changing everything in three days just feels like too much for both you and your child
The "fix it fast" promises sound intense, and probably too good to be true. You'd rather take a few weeks to make changes so that it's realistic and manageable.
Your child isn't a naturally "go with the flow" kind
You know that their natural temperament means they need time to adjust to anything new.
Things haven't stuck in the past
Maybe you started strong, but then teething hit. Or they got ill. Or you just weren't sure what to do when progress stalled. This time, you want someone there the whole way to help you adjust and keep going when life gets messy.
You really want this, but you're also feeling conflicted
Part of you may desperately need more sleep. Another part of you may feel an element of guilt or uncertainty about making changes. You'd love to have someone on your team who understands the multiple emotions you might be feeling, and can hold a non-judgemental space for you to talk things through if you need.